NOTICE

Until 23/11/09, I will not be replying to any messages on facebook or lyn. This blog is also on hiatus till the aforementioned date. As of yesterday, I have voluntarily blocked facebook, gizmodo, and lyn along with a few other online forums and content providers from being accessed on my computer. Productivity is up 300%. Frameworks of reasoning will be posted on google sites as I complete them (link to "medicine" on the right).

The Dilemma Of Ugly

I am 23 and I notice a worrying trend. For the women whom I deem attractive are quickly becoming unavailable. My life used to be in shambles...I was pathethic, and quite reasonably stood no realistic chance of garnering romantic interest from women whom I deemed worthy (pretty girls had far better options).

Five years too late. It is only recently, almost three years after being forced to fend for myself - have I been able to take care of myself properly. My physical being is starting to thrive, but the reality is that I am still far behind in the race to become a truly eligable bachelor that could cherry pick whom he dates.

I understand now why some parents are worried that their children have not found a partner - for those who remain single for long will be left with scraps in the game of love. Marry a tall black person and your children are unlikely to be short and white - The apple does not fall far from the tree and this is why I absolutely cannot lose in the game of love.

I was once too self-centered to realize the importance of friends. I am from a stable family and have never really needed to build strong social connections outside home. At the end of the day, friends are important - for a healthy social life is the prelude of empathy, the fundamental building block of human relationships, both platonic and romantic. I cannot emphasize the importance of building social relationships (social networking) - for it is food for the mind and soul. It keeps one's life in balance. It let's your inner self know that your life is in order. It gives you emotional security and mental strength. Friends are important!!!

Looks really dont matter when it comes to love.
BUT
Men hate falling in love with ugly women.
Women hate falling in love with losers.
So be not a loser.

I have only been moderately successful in my career path, but that means only so much in the game of love. A healthy career gives me the financial means of taking care of myself, but ultimately it will not compensate for my physical, social and mental flaws. I resolve to not have to compensate for anything in the game of love. I must have the raw physical attractiveness, mental/social wellbeing, and charisma to win in the game of love - to build a meaningful relationship with an attractive woman who is worthy.

To have a healthy mind, healthy body and healthy outlook on life. To thrive and to win in the game of life. It's the dynamo of volition that pushes me to be a better man. That is my inner drive

I live every day like it is my last.

Awesome FTW!

Spirit Core

#1. The Purpose Of Life
In a time before time, in a realm beyond human perception, a transgression of God's will occured, and souls were given a second chance to prove themselves. The world was created to test people by means of which they differ. The child of a rabbi born into the most conservative kibbutz has no advantage over the child of an eskimo who knows nothing outside of his igloo. Everyone is tested, and none shall be wronged. Everyone's fate is sealed. But fate alone does not determine the outcome of one's life. For fate is like a tree - which branch each individual chooses to climb determines his/her destiny.

#2. Spiritual Humility
True faith cannot be inherited. Faith is not religion. No amount of brainwashing and proselytization will make a person more inclined to follow either the right or wrong path in life. God guides whom He wills and leaves astray whom He wills. And only God knows who the believers are. What anyone claims to believe means nothing. I will never call anyone a believer or disbeliever. There can be no 'us-versus-them' mentality for there is no 'us' and no 'them'. It is wrong to pass judgment on people, and it is especially wrong to put oneself on a moral high horse and talk down on other people.

#3. Independance From Hedonism and Religionism.
What makes you feel good about yourself? Beautiful rich people tend to turn to hedonistic pleasures while poor ugly people tend to turn to religionism. Most people are in the grey area in between. Believing in one God and doing the right thing applies regardless of what circumstance an individual lives his/her life. It is independent of both religionism and hedonism. You could be living in trendy Shibuya, Tokyo, or the city of Qum, Iran. Sure, the hedonist will be subjected to different temptations (eg. drugs/alcohol, 'massage parlours') compared to the religionist (eg. extremism, blind hate, egoism, 'us-vs-them' mentality), but at the end of the day both will have opportunity to take the right path in life.

#4. Faith In Humanity
Neither hedonism nor religionism are intrinsically bad, or good. They are simply different. Both sides have their bad apples. It is important to not hold preconceived notions about people based on their apparent lifestyle choice (hedonism vs religionism). A great majority of religionists are not terrorists hell bent on proselytizing the world's children. A great majority of hedonists are not drunken, crack sniffing swingers. The world is not a lost cause. There are many many religionists, hedonists, and those in the grey area between who are at the bottom line decent people - and that is where my faith in humanity lies.


#5. No Coercion In Matters Of Faith - Civil Liberties
(to be continued)